Chapter 12 is about foreplay. Most everyone acknowledges that foreplay is good, and this chapter is no exception. Popcak makes the interesting but seemingly effective choice to break foreplay down into the various senses. So, for example, under seeing he discusses things like wearing lingerie, under smell he suggests to use scented candles, etc. There is nothing revolutionary or earthshaking here, but the suggestions are solid and reasonable. He also provides an unambiguous defense of oral sex. Some might be puzzled as to why oral sex needs defending, but the traditional position of the Church opposed oral sex--hence the reason it was traditionally grouped with anal sex under the heading of "sodomy." So, Popcak is stepping out a bit on a limb here, and he deserves his kudos for that. He also makes clear that oral sex goes both ways, subject only to the One Rule. Good on him for recognizing the needs of the ladies in this realm. I could see how his constant use of
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