Words Have Consequences
One of the experiences of studying to be a priest is that you get to see priests in their private lives, without the public face on and without the filter on what they say. Sometimes, this is not a pretty experience. I remember one such incident on Thanksgiving in Denver, during my novitiate. As, perhaps unfortunately, tends to happen at such events, the brothers had had a few drinks, and people felt free to speak candidly. One priest, who was quite elderly (and now deceased, so I will not name him), was beginning to get riled up about how great everything was in Catholicism in the 70s, and how everything had gone to pot since them. He finished it off, however, with a single comment: "I wish that Turkish guy had finished him (Pope John Paul II) off." I was horrified, and too stunned to say anything. But, I should have. No matter what disagreements one has with someone, it is never, never OK to wish death upon anyone, especially if you are...